Friday, February 24, 2012

Ginny's reply to me

Thank you for your email Suzy and I appreciate your thoughts. You are right, I have not been a good friend to you and for that, I am sorry. I never meant to make you feel as if you were not important to me. As for my relationships, I agree with you about some of that as well. I do feel that I would rather be "all-in" when in a relationship, instead of just "dating", to really give the relationship an honest shot. Yes, I am trying to find "the one", I want to get married again and have a family and guess I feel the time ticking rather quickly on me now that I'm 36. I'm sorry that you do not approve of my relationships and I do understand why you feel the way you do.

I'm not really sure where to go from here either. I do respect what you've said and yes, I probably should take some time to myself and just learn to be comfortable with who I am on my own. Thank you for all of your friendship over the past years. It seems I have a few demons to slay in my private world before I'm good to anyone.

I hope we can at least stay in touch. I hope your interview went well.

I received this a couple days ago.  I haven't replied.  I don't really know what to say.  It's like she understands and agrees, but I don't feel any confidence that it really means things would be different.  She's told me that she's not good at confrontation and doesn't like it, which makes me wonder if she's just trying to keep the peace as opposed to truly speaking her mind.  

Either way, until I feel like I have something to say and I'm not so annoyed, I'm just going to leave things be.  What do you all think?



Anonymous qc said...

Ball's definitely in your court. I would lay money on the fact that she will call you up as soon as this latest fella is dust.

When that happens, the recollection of your email may be enough to make her change her behaviour.

February 25, 2012 7:59 AM  
Blogger Bearette said...

i think she's basically admitting that her focus right now is finding a man, not friendship. which is kind of lame, but honest, i guess.

February 25, 2012 4:49 PM  

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